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Give Yourself a Hand!

Eight Minutes

photo of concertWhen I was twelve years old, I had a habit of slipping into my two older sisters’ room when no one was around and cranking up the stereo to dance. Granted I was limited by their selection of albums, as my collection was pretty lean. One particular song —and, all right, I admit that it was on the Barry Manilow Live album— included an eight-minute drum solo followed by wild applause from the crowd. I would listen to this track over and over again while dancing and taking swooping, dramatic bows as the applause rose louder. What an ebullient state I’d be in when I was finished! Read more

The Music That Moves You

What Makes You Move?

What songs find you blasting the volume when you hear them and make you feel totally alive, happy, and powerful? I ask every new client that question at the beginning of our work together. Knowing what music moves you is having a powerful motivating tool at your disposal. Read more

While I Was Milking A Cow

Good Ideas Need Some Room

You’re driving home from work and then it comes to you: a simpler way to resolve the issue you were struggling with all day. Read more

Seeing Is Believing

Can You See It?

Ginny's business vision boardThis year, in addition to writing my goals on paper, I felt the need to see them in a bigger context, so I decided to create a vision board. I now have a colorful board hanging on a wall in my office that illustrates how I imagine my coaching business will evolve. In another room, I have a second vision board depicting some of the elements that bring me the most joy in my personal life and how I see those expanding. Read more

Summoning Your Will

It Was Supposed To Be Easy

“Let’s go hike Camelback Mountain,” I suggested enthusiastically to my friend, Monica. She had traveled from Connecticut to visit me and an outdoor excursion into the Arizona landscape seemed like a great idea. After all, Camelback was listed in the book: Best Easy Day Hikes. Little did I know that the hike would test my will as much as my body. Read more

Impossible or Inevitable?

Degree of Difficulty

When beginning to work toward a challenging goal, there is a common tendency to dwell on the degree of difficulty. Sometimes this scares us into believing that what we are setting out to achieve is not really possible. Sure, we can describe the goal easily enough, but two minutes later we’re talking about how hard it’s going to be to get there. We forget that difficult doesn’t mean impossible. It can just feel that way when we hyper-focus on the potential obstacles. Read more

Is Pressure Your Paradigm?

Pressure Motivates

Pressure is a necessary component of life.  Without it, many things would never be accomplished.  A looming deadline, for example, spurs a project to completion. Read more

You’re Just Getting Started

Regaining Perspective

Recently, while at lunch with a friend, I mentioned a challenge I was having with a certain business initiative.  He must have detected a hint of frustration and gave me a surprised look that said, “You’re not giving up, are you?”  Of course not, I reassured him.  “Oh good,” he said relieved, “…because you’re just getting started.” Read more

To Goal or Not to Goal? (Part 2)

A confession and a contrast

Many of you responded to the previous issue and are busy forming your goals.  I have a confession to make.  I did not set goals this year!  Lest you think I’m some kind of “goals hypocrite,” allow me to explain.  In essence, I still have personal and business goals which I am pursuing.  It’s just that I didn’t write them down formally this time.  I am progressing with the vision and goals I created last year and allowing them to continue to guide me. So, it is not that I am without goals; it’s just that I am proceeding with less structure.  For me, a planner by nature, this is progress.  It finds me making intuitive choices and tapping into: flexibility—spontaneity—present-mindedness.  I continue to use my natural strengths of organization, planning, and breaking it down… just in a more relaxed way. Read more

To Goal or Not to Goal? (Part 1)

To goal or not to goal, that is the question.

Every January, I hear the same conversations and read the same articles.  They pose the question of whether resolutions and goals are worth the effort.  After all, they argue, so many people fail at this process and just feel worse later.  Some people don’t like the word ‘goal’ and would rather replace it with some other euphemism.  Call it whatever you like, but as Shakespeare said, a goal by any other name is still a goal.  (Okay, I stretched poetic license on that one.) Read more