Please note that Current of Life was previously published under the title: Living Your Potential
(#6 in the series: Are You A Dreamer?)
Dreams Need Protecting
I was predisposed to like the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness" for two reasons. First, I had seen the real life Christopher Gardner (the movie’s protagonist) relay his incredible story during a TV interview for "20/20”. Second, I like Will Smith. If I was wearing my movie critic hat, I could make a few suggestions as to some additional aspects I wished were included in the movie, but I won’t do that because regardless, the story is a wonderfully inspiring one. The movie’s message is uplifting and real.
Chris Gardner’s real life story is that he persisted through significant hardship to realize his dream of finding gratifying work and achieving financial freedom. The obstacles he encountered included a period of time being homeless with his small son whom he was raising as a single father, all while working tirelessly as an intern at a stock brokerage firm in hopes of landing a permanent job and breaking into the financial industry. He eventually became a top producer, founded his own brokerage firm, and today is a multimillionaire and philanthropist.
A particular scene from the movie illustrates an important point that fits well with our discussion on dreams. Will Smith (i.e., Chris Gardner) has had a discouraging day, beaten down again by the severity of his circumstances. He begins advising his son not to get too attached to his dream of playing basketball because that kind of athletic talent is just not in the family genes. Seeing that he had deflated his son’s youthful aspirations, in a great parenting moment he corrects himself and tells his son not to let anyone take his dream away. “You got a dream, you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you that you can't do it. You want something? Go get it. Period.”
What Does It Mean?
What does it mean to say that your dream needs protecting? Have you ever shared a dream with someone only to hear a sarcastic, “Yeah right, dream on,” or “That sounds nice but how are you going to do it?” Dreams are sometimes rebuffed or dismissed by others because they sound…well…dreamy.
If you are truly entertaining the possibility of making a heartfelt dream a reality, be selective with whom you seek support, counsel, and perspective and be selective with the timing of when you share information with others.
What Dreams Require
Chris Gardner’s story illustrates what dreams require:
Protection – When he counseled his son to protect his dream, he was also reminding himself of his own dream.
How will you protect your dream?
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Here's to you,
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